tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post1957438099989299429..comments2023-10-20T04:42:01.267-07:00Comments on McKoala Days: Itchy and ScratchyMcKoalahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01457446171624585099noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-6312494755498152872008-02-25T08:15:00.000-08:002008-02-25T08:15:00.000-08:00I vote for time to yourself! FAcial? mani pedi? Or...I vote for time to yourself! FAcial? mani pedi? Or just go see a movie and enjoy! How often do you get me time?Ello - Ellen Ohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18311917335471167591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-39088570603342025482008-02-24T17:42:00.000-08:002008-02-24T17:42:00.000-08:00Go, koala, go. Wallow away...for a little while.Go, koala, go. Wallow away...for a little while.Robin S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03258459688300851984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-58087317967100826412008-02-24T15:28:00.000-08:002008-02-24T15:28:00.000-08:00BACK - AWAY - FROM - MY - SALMON!You're funny, tho...BACK - AWAY - FROM - MY - SALMON!<BR/><BR/>You're funny, though, the pair of you salmon killers. <BR/><BR/>I'm working today (deadline), then I'm wallowing for the rest of the week. How does that sound?<BR/><BR/>I may blog. Or I may not. Check in and see.McKoalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01457446171624585099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-16805186366946115372008-02-24T07:12:00.000-08:002008-02-24T07:12:00.000-08:00"Geez, I love salmon. I hope I didn't eat it."Yeah...<I>"Geez, I love salmon. I hope I didn't eat it."</I><BR/><BR/>Yeah, I had a salmon starter at a big dinner the other night. The last idea that salmon had was "Hey, I'm gonna swim into that net!"<BR/><BR/>But seriously, maybe it's just winter doldrums, but every writing blogger I know seems to be in a non-productive phase just now. I think I'm slowly starting to climb out of mine, though, so some writing might get done over the coming weeks.Stuart Nevillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03883631620345577504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-24154699580896020772008-02-22T09:45:00.000-08:002008-02-22T09:45:00.000-08:00McK- don't forget the important first stage of wal...McK- don't forget the important first stage of wallowing. It's important to clean your clock out before beginning.<BR/><BR/>So your mantra for the first few days should honestly be: <BR/><BR/>Wallow Big.<BR/><BR/>OK?Robin S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03258459688300851984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-3982423361546735622008-02-22T05:37:00.000-08:002008-02-22T05:37:00.000-08:00There's an Idea Salmon?Geez, I love salmon. I hope...There's an Idea Salmon?<BR/><BR/>Geez, I love salmon. I hope I didn't eat it.Staciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07969399927758009095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-36433053430577828212008-02-22T04:34:00.000-08:002008-02-22T04:34:00.000-08:00McKoala, I sooo understand!!That guilt thing can b...McKoala, I sooo understand!!<BR/>That guilt thing can be overwhelming. The first year both my children were in school, I painted every room in the house (practically) and volunteered 3 days a week at school. The school year flew by and then it was summer, and I had no real break. <BR/><BR/><BR/>I have a much better balance now. I'm enjoying the 'me' time ---and I don't feel guilty anymore. I can think back to seven years of when I was the one getting up in the night, dealing with colic, taking children to hospitals, etc. YOu know the deal. I think it's okay to kick back and relax.<BR/><BR/>But I also am trying to have a writing schedule. It's not working out quite as well as I want it, but it's getting there. I want to make use of this while it's there. DH and I live by the mantra that 'things in life can always change.' So take advantage of it while it's there.<BR/><BR/>You sooo don't need fixing, btw! A little work, a little break. And fart in the kitchen. Sage words.Chris Eldinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11794946908789120139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-88901846076023803572008-02-21T16:51:00.000-08:002008-02-21T16:51:00.000-08:00Thanks all for your advice! I know I'm lucky not t...Thanks all for your advice! I know I'm lucky not to have to work full-time, but I'm having some trouble with focus. I think Robin is right, I haven't adjusted to this unexpected change. I'm not unhappy, in fact quite the opposite, but I am scrambling to refocus. <BR/><BR/>I'm going to take a combination of advice...<BR/><BR/>Today I will try and tie up work loose ends, then next week I will try not to work at all, other than emergency edits on work already done. <BR/><BR/>I'm a chronic list-maker, so I will try Sylvia's method and see what I get. Then I'll translate the most important things into a version of Sex's timeline. By the way, ss, whatever you do or don't do today, don't forget that last item. (Picking up the kids, not checking back. Oh, go on, do both! I want to hear how it worked for you).<BR/><BR/>Finally, margarita is not my drink of choice, but if 'true will permit an alternative selection I will wash down my thoughts with white wine and gin and tonic. <BR/><BR/>However, whatever I do, I will not fart in the kitchen.McKoalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01457446171624585099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-27888750459456639052008-02-21T08:03:00.000-08:002008-02-21T08:03:00.000-08:00Yep to all of it. Permission to just take a break ...Yep to all of it. Permission to just take a break and wallow, lists for everything I'd like to do and what's reasonable to expect, Spending a limited amount of time on each daily thing.<BR/><BR/>But I'm a human doing and sitting still is a PITA.Sarah Laurensonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09252565450452195395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-26760426687755230302008-02-21T07:01:00.000-08:002008-02-21T07:01:00.000-08:00I'm at the end of a project and the start of two m...I'm at the end of a project and the start of two more (can't decide) and I needed a break from the intensity. Also, my life seems to be catching up with me. So I've made a time line for myself. An hour at my desk--email and blogs. Trip to store for birthday cake, etc, leave treats at school. Another hour at my desk. Lunch meeting with our magazine's tech guru. Clean up toy room. Get kids.<BR/><BR/>I'll have to check back in and let you know if that's how it went. :Dssashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15527483283426518167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-73561235859595910402008-02-21T06:56:00.000-08:002008-02-21T06:56:00.000-08:00Fart in the kitchen? Does that work?Sorry, McK, I ...Fart in the kitchen? Does that work?<BR/><BR/>Sorry, McK, I don't have any advice, but robin's, paca's, and sylvia's sound good. <BR/><BR/>I really just wanted to type "fart in the kitchen." Oops. Did it again.Blogless Trollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03983848259551488867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-51198934071817072392008-02-21T06:18:00.000-08:002008-02-21T06:18:00.000-08:00I make lists. Things I should do, things I want to...I make lists. Things I should do, things I want to do. If it's really bad, I make excel spreadsheets out of the lists with rankings of 1-10 for various criteria (How happy will this make me? How drastic is it if this doesn't get done this month? How many other people will this make happy?).<BR/><BR/>Then I rank it and resolve to work through the items, starting tomorrow.<BR/><BR/>Failing that, Pacatrue's suggestion sounds good.Sylviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05925593802209715440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-33691130696458592962008-02-20T20:43:00.000-08:002008-02-20T20:43:00.000-08:00Margarita?Margarita?pacatruehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04125048243775811714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20015448.post-24968868342652809682008-02-20T16:41:00.000-08:002008-02-20T16:41:00.000-08:00Been there. It's frustrating- having the time but ...Been there. It's frustrating- having the time but feeling just-about-guilty over it. Here's my prescription:<BR/><BR/>Wallow for a day or two. Wallow big. Watch junk TV- eat ice cream. Fart in the kitchen. Drink wine for lunch with a friend, and laugh your ass off at people at other tables. Don't say you've already wallowed- no- you haven't, sweetie.<BR/>You've been in a mommy-guilt-holding-pattern. Now: wallow big.<BR/><BR/>Next: spend a day or two in consideration of the way forward, McK style. Which pievces of your puzzle mean the most, the very most, to who you are at the very core of you - disregarding, for the first time in years, how anyone ELSE wants you to fill your days. Go there first, and get that work done.<BR/><BR/>Then, incrementally, you can add in other things. <BR/><BR/>But it is truly your turn, and you should make the most if it. You deserve it. Repeat after me...Robin S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03258459688300851984noreply@blogger.com